Week 3 | 10-12 months prior to wedding day

Hello Beautiful!

Let’s start researching venues! 

  • Preliminary budget is done!
  • First draft of guest list is complete!
  • Wedding consultant interviews are in progress!

You are now ready for the next task. Venue hunting! 

PART 1 of 3. PREP FOR VENUE SEARCHES

As a Hindu couple, there are a few important things to know before beginning your venue search.

While we are still in the midst of COVID-19, take a moment to review our latest resources to better prepare yourself before you begin considering venues.  

Critical to do before the search begins:

  • Discuss & select your ceremony time
    • {Before noon/12-4pm/after 5pm/still don’t know} 
  • Discuss & select your meals to be served
    • {Will you do a lunch after the ceremony and then dinner or just one meal?} 
  • Are there any other events you want to host at the same venue (Garba/Sangeet, Grah Shanti or other pre-wedding ceremonies, etc.) 
  • You may choose to have the wedding in a mandir.  If so, determine that before beginning the venue search process. 

Advice for a successful search:

  • If one location is your preference for all events, you might want to consider venues that have multiple ballrooms.
  • Make a decision on what you want in your space before you start venue hunting  – don’t waste time at venues that aren’t a fit  (stage, dance floor, bars, etc.)
  • If you have a lot of out of town guests, consider a venue that has sleeping rooms either attached or very close by for their convenience. 
  • Think about ALL the food you want to serve your guests beyond the events 
    • Breakfast
    • Chai/Snacks 

Venue search prep questions:

The reception is likely the most expensive part of the equation, so consider the following:  

  • Date of event?
  • Guest Count?
  • Is the type of venue important to you?
    • Ex: Stand-alone, hotel or country club 
  • What type of bar options do you want? 
    • Open/cash, premium/beer & wine only?
    • How many hours of bar time will you need?
    • Will there be a cocktail hour?
    • Will you have the bar open during dinner? 
    • What is your bar budget?  (Refer to our Budget Estimator)
  • What food do you want to offer? 
    • American fare
    • Desi catering
      • Appetizers only? 
      • Complete dinner?
      • Dinner options added onto American menu?
      • Desserts only? 

DesiWeds Insights:
Read Let the Hunting Begin for more tips and questions to ask venues during your search.

ACTION ITEMS

  • Answer the above questions together
  • Read the venue hunting article
  • Begin online research of venues
  • Time sensitive: Schedule a One-on-One Venue Matching call with your DesiWeds Concierge
  • Have your Budget Estimator ready before your coaching call